Many people claim to be inlove with someone else, they have dated about 2 or 3 times, and of course, they have had sexual relations. I ask myself if sex could mean love. My first answer was that it could be, the fisic atraction is common and it could get people to fall in love. But after thinking a bit I concluded that sex could not mean love, because the pasion is not something that lasts. Love has many meanings, everyone has it's own definition of love. For many people love means, to share each others life and feelings, and more importantly, that there exist feelings for the other person and these feelings last for a long time.
My point is that you can have sex with many people and then dump them, but when you are inlove, you would not be capable of doing such thing. When you have sex you can idealize that person and you may think it's love, but when the relationship is just sex, when you take off the bandage covering your eyes, you come to see the truth, that it's just sex, there are no feelings involved. Now, this kind of relationship can move on, only when both persons want to. Of course that is my point of view... which is yours?
Cya, H&K
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