I can't do it alone...

Many people try always to make things their own way, and do not ask for help, for they think they can handle the situation by themselves. But the truth is that they do need help sometimes. the worst thing people can have is an enormous pride, because they cannot allow themselves "to look" weak or stupid. But the truth is that rejecting any kind of help make them look weak, in the sense that trying to show strenght where there is none. No one is allmighty, everybody need help from time to time.

 

The problem comes when people have a problem that is afecting his or her life and they try to handle it alone. Depression is an example,  depressed people do not want help even when inside they desperately look for it. To loose weight, to study, to learn something, anorexia, bulimia, adictions. These are some of the common problems people usualy reject to be helped. If you know, deep down, that you need help, do not reject it, people only want your wellbeing. And if you know someone who need help, don't give up, and try always to convince him or her that somethings cannot be solved alone. There is no shame in being helped. It's wise to know when we need help.

Cya, H&K